tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5579204148534080114.post253084031145792150..comments2023-05-12T01:00:30.513-07:00Comments on Perspective in Medicine and Motherhood: Ooooops!Mamacita_MDhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16371406949004948295noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5579204148534080114.post-4140317311154456802009-02-06T07:34:00.000-08:002009-02-06T07:34:00.000-08:00I know I am posting on an older post, but I just f...I know I am posting on an older post, but I just found your blog and felt compelled to post. <BR/><BR/>I am a mom and a medial student, so it's good to find others in a similar situation.<BR/><BR/>I just want to say, there is nothing wrong with expressing your needs or pain to your husband. You are married partners and coparents and you and your child's needs are important. More important than the World of Warcraft.<BR/><BR/>I have dealt with similar problems, and I would highly recommend marital therapy. If the people he communicates with online share his values, he will think what he is doing is normal. It's not. It's selfish, and he is neglecting his duties as a husband and father. He may need an outsider to put it in perspective for him.<BR/><BR/>If anything, please find support for yourself. I have been so thankful for support I have from other mothers. There are message boards and online communities if you don't have time to join a support group or seek individual therapy.<BR/><BR/>Good luck.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com